5 Ways to Reduce Home Buying Stress

Buying a home can cause more than a little stress. It’s a huge investment for most people. There are lots of legally binding documents to dive into. Your finances are being scrutinized and squeezed. Then, when everything’s said and done, there’s no guarantee that your offer will be the one that’s accepted. Some of these things are simply out of your control. You can’t change the current market or the going price for the type of house or neighborhood you’re after. There may be many people with their hearts set on the same home you want. However, you can be prepared. By taking a few simple steps, you can eliminate or minimize some of the most common home-buying stresses.

1. Prioritize Your Wants Vs. Needs

If you’ve been thinking about buying a home of your own for a while, you’ve probably come up with a list of features you’d love to have in your new home. Many new homebuyers fantasize about the amenities they see on their favorite home shows or social media channels. This can create a wish list of features that’s less than realistic.

Before you get invested in a whole-hearted house hunt, make sure you have your priorities in place. Nothing is worse than the disappointment when you realize your dream home is either not realistic or out of reach. Be honest about your finances, goals, and what’s most important.

The next step is to list all the features of a home that you would like. Qualify them as follows:


If this property does not have these items, then it shouldn’t even be considered. Examples include the distance from work or family, the number of bedrooms/bathrooms, etc.


If the property hits all of the “must-haves” and some of the “should-haves,” it stays in contention. However, it doesn’t need to have all of these features.

A huge pool would be nice, but it’s probably not a need. File this one under wish list!

Wish List

If you find a property in your budget that has all of the “must-haves,” and most of the “should-haves,” it’s already a winner. Anything you get on the wish list is just a nice bonus!

Having this list worked out before starting your search will save you time and frustration. You don’t want to go on a wild goose chase looking for a home that doesn’t exist. Talk about home buying stress!

This list will also determine what features are most important to you before looking for houses in your desired area. Having your dream home priorities in order also helps you cut down on the list of potential homes. It can focus your search areas on a particular district or neighborhood and can help your family reach a consensus on must-have features. It’s important to do all of these before getting emotionally invested in any property.

2. Adjust Your Budget Now

Even if buying your home and paying your mortgage doesn’t look like a stretch, there are financial considerations that can fly under the radar. Lenders qualify you for what you technically can afford on a spreadsheet. They’re looking at your monthly debt-to-income ratio. They don’t look at what you spend your disposable income on like your passions and hobbies. Homebuyers can end up with a mortgage payment they can only afford by scaling back on the things they enjoy.

It’s a good idea to start tracking your monthly spending on a spreadsheet before you start your house hunt. Know how much you really spend, factor in your fun money, and take an honest look at where expenditures can be checked. You don’t want to end up buying your dream home without having any extra money to enjoy it. Test out your newly accounted budget in the months leading up to your serious house hunt, that way you won’t run into any surprises when things actually get serious. Avoiding the stress of a high mortgage payment is just as important as avoiding home buying stress as well!

3. Boost Your Credit Score

Your credit score plays an important role in providing you access to the best interest rate available when you finance a home. You should check your credit report regularly to know where your credit stands. That way, you’re prepared when it comes time to make the purchase. You’ll have the peace of mind of knowing that when you’re ready to buy, your credit will be too.

Consider your credit report the road map to all your credit behaviors. It’s important to know how your report will look to lenders when they see it for the first time. In the months leading up to your house hunt, make sure you’re making good decisions that will help, not hurt your credit. Avoid maxing out your credit cards and pay more than the minimum balance owed. Don’t apply for credit indiscriminately. Most importantly, pay your bills on time.

4. Get Pre-Approved for a Mortgage

In a competitive seller’s market, any edge you can get when putting in an offer on the home of your dreams is a win. Getting pre-approved for a mortgage is a way to minimize the stress of trying to stand out to sellers. Pre-approval will also tell you how much home you can afford. This can help you move faster, and with greater confidence, in competitive markets.

Many potential home buyers overestimate the down payment and credit scores needed to qualify for a mortgage today. Beyond giving you a competitive edge, getting qualified and setting your budget will give you the confidence of knowing if your dream home is within your reach.

Getting your loan pre-approval is an important step in the home buying process!

5. Get Help From An Experienced Realtor

Professional help and advice is always a good thing when making a large investment. With a home, you’re buying more than just a plot and structure – you’re buying a neighborhood. Learning about a neighborhood takes homework. Homework can be stressful. Working with an experienced real estate agent who has a strong working knowledge of your target neighborhood can take a lot of the legwork off your plate. This can reduce home buying stress and make search efforts more fruitful in the long run.

Once you find the right home, there’s going to be a lot of paperwork involved. From disclosures to reports, the forms to review are endless. Working with a Realtor can ease the stress of learning real estate legal lingo. They can also guide you through the buying entire process, form by form, step by step. If you have a question or lingering uncertainty, your Realtor will be there to ease your mind and reduce the overall stress of buying a home.

Home Buying Stress Got You Down?

Buying a home can be stressful! There’s no getting around it. However, all of us at The Shannon Jones Team pride ourselves on making real estate transactions as smooth as possible. We aim to always educate and provide stress-reducing resources along the way. If you’d like to get started on purchasing a house, please let us know. You can fill out the form below or give us a call at 562.896.2456.

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About the Author

Shannon Jones has been selling real estate since 1998 and specializes in listing and marketing homes. She has consistently been one of the top Realtors in the Long Beach area. Prior to her award-winning career in real estate with the Shannon jones Team, Shannon has had successful careers in journalism and public relations. She holds a bachelors degree from UC Irvine and a masters degree from UC Berkeley. Shannon holds E-Pro, CDPE (Certified Distressed Property Expert), and PSC (Pre-Foreclosure Specialist) certifications. Shannon is very personable and maintains a very strong moral compass, always putting the best interest of home buyers/sellers above monetary goals. A California native, Shannon enjoys gardening, travel, reading, cooking and poker when she’s not selling homes MY DESIGNATIONS Lic# 01247705 | CDPE (Certified Distressed Property Expert) | E-Pro | PSC (Pre-Foreclosure Specialist) MY SERVICE AREAS Anaheim Bellflower Buena Park Carson Cerritos Cypress Downey Fountain Valley Garden Grove Huntington Beach La Palma Lakewood Long Beach Los Alamitos Los Angeles County Norwalk Orange County Rossmoor San Pedro Seal Beach Signal Hill South Bay Westminster

One response to “5 Ways to Reduce Home Buying Stress”

  1. HOMEiA says:

    Thanks Shannon for helpful share! buying a house is a complicated process. therefore, learning how to deduce home buying stress will be significant for all home buyers.

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